The year of the rifle ..

I subscribe to Tiny Buddha .. simple wisdom for complex lives ..(http://tinybuddha.com/) and it talked on Impossibilities... “Impossibilities are merely things which we have not yet learned.” -Charles W. Chestnutt
Neways ...This year has been fantabolous learning experience.... I have discovered what it feels to be reborn ...rise like a phoenix in all itx glory and vivid colors :).

This month however, my trips and wandering has been restricted to Jaipur .. to and fro NH8 to be precise, but mind you Jaipur is a beautiful place and to all those who plan to visit please give me an advance notice ... I will be your truly knowledgeable guide :). One absolutely fantastic thing is the light and sound show at Amer Fort, (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amber_Fort).. it has it all .. folklore .. the story telling in AB's deep voice ..the drama through lights and sound ... sitting area is open ... the crisp evening air.. under the star lit sky .. abs perfect:)

Moving on, given my lineage and penchant for balloon shooting at local fairs ... I decided to take it a step further and actually get a break barrel rifle ... and also enroll in a rifle shooting class. Amazing experience .. these days Gopal too looks forward to my idiosyncrasies :). We have to drive around quite a bit to get to the shooting range .. and while I practise, he tries at clay target shooting :).

Neways people adios, enjoy and have a fantab day .. I need to get back to work.. yes, I have to work too ..:)

Purpose...

I don't know my purpose, sometimes I think i am just drifting across life gathering experiences. Do they add up to the big picture aka my life's purpose? hmmm I dont know or cant say. How does one figure out his/her purpose?
Am I confused because of the lack of talent in one particular field or there are way too many options clouding my sight or do i lack the drive and am lazy?
Nobody would say that my life is not interesting or dull. New challenges show up everyday --but are they leading me newhere? what is my purpose? I have never taken time out to choose a path - been so involved /caught up in the life/ circumstances around me that I choose between the options available and moved on. I have achieved quite a lot, have put in a lot of hard work and dedication and to an great extent proud of the person I am today, but I dont see a purpose ... the big picture.
In this jigsaw puzzle of life, i seem to have all the pieces but do not have the small guiding picture that tells me what i am building.
Any suggestions?

Terms n Definition...

we all use words .. to give meaning to and express our feelings. I think over time we have forgotten the meaning of the words we so often throw around ...so as a gentle reminder ...

a) Care ..the work of providing treatment for or attending to someone or something.
so next time when you say "I care for you.",please remember it does involve some work to be done on your part.

b) Love.. is any of a number of emotions related to a sense of strong affection.;a strong positive emotion of regard and affection;any object of warm affection or devotion; beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment; get pleasure from.

So again be very careful with the words "I love You". It requires you to have a strong attachment to that person. Heaven alone can help you if, you say " I love you and care for you" and still like to be passive and sit on your lazy butt.. or want the other person to apply herself/himself without ne return on your part. Tough luck .. but it is a two way street. :)

c) Happy.. enjoying or showing or marked by joy or pleasure; felicitous; glad: eagerly disposed to act or to be of service

d) Happiness.. is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources.

e) Commitment...the act of binding yourself (intellectually or emotionally) to a course of action.

speaking the words aloud is very easy, but following your commitment is very difficult
you need to really think beyond self. Life was never simple and will never be. Would the life of a caveman be simple? simplistic yes, but not simple.

call me crazy but i think love, care and happiness can never be achieved, grown or sustained using the KISS funda.

f)craziness ...informal terms for insanity; folly: the quality of being rash and foolish; The state of being broken in mind; imbecility or weakness of intellect; derangement.

What constitutes a good life?

This was a very inspiring article by Jim Rohn (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Rohn)
was passed on by a dear friend as a step towards my continuing education on life. :)

Fully agreeing with Mr. Rohn ... The ultimate expression of life is not a paycheck, a big fancy car, a big fat stack of currency or a magnanimous mansion ... (basically everything in my life :) ) we have to keep asking ourselves "what for me would be a good life?". A simple yet a powerful guiding tool ...so my dears ponder on "what for would you be a fantabolus life?" :)

Law of attraction....

I just finished reading "The Power" and watching "The Secret" both by Rhonda Byrne (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhonda_Byrne). The nutshell from the above is "The law of attraction"... that we all are forms of energy, as is everything in this universe. We all communicate with the universe and entities through our thoughts and feelings, which are nothing but frequencies. The frequencies we emit or channelize attract similar frequencies back to us.

So basically to get whatever you want all you need to do is ask,feel and picture it and the universe will figure out a way to deliver it to you. Now in the movie,...One quantum physicist, explains, "assume that universe is a catalogue and just select what all experiences you want in your life..."... feel and imagine what it would be if you already had them ....and viola like the genie from Alladin, the universe will materialize saying "your wish is my command". :)

Now as ridiculous as these words appear (to the most of us), i was very curious to try if this really works. So I made a list of things that I want and started picturing them in my real life.
We recently planned a vacation to Ranthambore and we really wanted my parents to experience Oberoi Vanyavilas (http://www.oberoihotels.com/oberoi_vanyavilas/index.asp). It is supposed to be Asia's best resort. Neways the rooms were very expensive and they were asking to book 3 rooms for the 5 of us. So we (sur n me) gave up the idea and settled for Taj. The day before we were supposed to leave ... My brother decided that he, babhi n kids want to go too. I tried all evening to get in touch with my travel agent but no avail. Next morning we left thinking that we will try our luck at the Taj, once we reach. On the way .. my brother called up Oberoi Vanyavilas to check and not only did they have three rooms but also they offered them to us at a deeply discounted price :). Sounds too good to be true :) right ?..

But ever since, I have been picturing what I want and directing it to the universe ,..and somehow things fall in place. need not be in my time line ..but they fall in place and in ways better than my imagination :). It is nice to know we all have a genie for whom our every wish is his command. :) Believe me try it out...the joy, happiness and abundance it will bring in your life is totally worth it.